My childhood dentist, John Martielli, died in a freak accident in the fall of 2000. I had returned to his care after moving back to Baltimore and found it very reassuring. Dr. Martielli, after all, had no reason to criticize the work in my mouth, as most of it was his. (I had broken three front teeth in a biking accident in San Antonio and an excellent dentist there put me back together.)
About the same time that Dr. Martielli died, I cracked two back teeth, which set into motion a long series of dental adventures — crowns, followed by an infection, then a root canal, then microsurgery to get what the root canal couldn’t. Most of this was done under the care of a dental practice whose care ran from indifferent to downright hostile. (With the exception of the doctor who did the microsurgery, Dr. John Emmett, who did a great job and was very apologetic about all the pain he had to inflict on me. But he was not part of this practice.) It also irritated me that they were so critical of Dr. Martielli, scoffing at his cleaning methods, saying that older dentists didn’t do a very thorough job. Meanwhile, they sorta forgot to fill the hole they drilled into my crown after the root canal, a fact I discovered only after I wised up and fled this practice. I’ve started over with a new dentist and the relationship looks promising.
But yesterday, after almost three hours in the chair, I couldn’t help thinking wistfully about Dr. Martielli — the orignal office in Woodlawn, the Highlights magazines (I loved Goofus and Gallant) and, if one were cavity-free — often I wasn’t — a trip to Bauhof’s Bakery around the corner for chocolate drop, cherry top, chocolate chip, and pink-and-white refrigerator cookies.
The bakery is still there, although owned by a different family, and the cookies are almost as good as a I remember them — more a commentary on my memory than the cookies, which are probably made from the same recipes, but what present-day cookie can compete with the ones you’ve dreamed about for 30-plus years? And the barbershop across the street has the “Time for a Haircut” clock that I long ago bequeathed to Tess Monaghan.
Really, shouldn’t there be a bakery around the corner from every dentist? And it turns out you can eat right away with these new fillings, which will be gradually replacing my old ones over the next year. Not because of Dr. Martielli, but because the old silver fillings don’t last forever. What does, my new dentist asked.
Happily I am part of a generation who had our teeth sealed when we were young and will never have to deal with cavities (It also helps that instead of a sweet tooth, I have a fat tooth but that presents a whole host of other problems).
This is becoming more and more of a benefit as I work for a newspaper with a rotten dental plan and a health plan that makes me so nervous I grind my teeth, forcing me to need more dental service…
And am I the only one who still can feel the needle going through my gums and into my nose everytime I sit in a dentist’s chair?
Yesterday marks the first time I’ve ever gotten novocaine for a filling. We toughed it out in my day. <g>
And all this treatment is a la carte, by the way. I have dental insurance, but it’s so limited that I’d rather pay out of pocket than have to choose the dentists in network.
As for newspaper-induced teeth-grinding — you may have been joking, Byron, but that’s how I cracked those back teeth in the first place. Be careful. Think about night-guards.
I’m pushing my luck, too. I keep thinking I must not grind my teeth since I left the newspaper world!
I don’t mind the silver fillings wearing out. I am mildly resentful that they actually begin to damage teeth over time, creating fissures in the teeth.
Life of kings my ass…
Sadly, no I wasn’t joking and I have been advised several times to consider night guards but I’m always afraid of choking on them in the middle of the night.
I grew up in Port Washington, NY — and the only fond memory of my childhood dentist (Dr. Friedman) was that his office was right next to CARVEL! Now, there’s a memory.
John Schramm
That was my Uncle John. I always thought he could have waited to cut that huge limb down.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about him.
Nick
Its nice to hear the family bakery is still remembered. I miss the bakery more and more every year. Sunday mornings at my house were always extra popular with my friends, Dad would walk in with fresh baked goods galour….ooooooohhhhhhh the memories. thanks Laura
PS-thanks Dad for all the great treats and memories!